towards humanity

In the manufactured spirit of the season, we came up with a list of some things that we’d like to avoid in life, as well as the things that we’d like to attract.  We thought to share it and hope you find it useful.

Things to Avoid:

1. Unnecessary debt (the concept of “neccessity” is open for interpretation here of course, but I’m looking at things in terms of how much of my life am I willing to spend in exchange for said need).

2. Being around people who make me feel bad about who I am, what I believe, or how I behave.  I don’t mind being challenged by others, but I don’t enjoy being judged, blamed, or shamed.

3. Holding onto unnecessary anger, whether towards loved ones or strangers.  I’d like to allow more space in myself for forgiveness by freeing up the space holding anger’s destructive energy.  (Please note that this doesn’t mean that I’m going to numb my emotions and pretend that life is a rose or smile in the face of exploitation and violence.  I’m just saying that I want to let go of the anger that damages relationships, moods, gatherings, and breakfast tables.  The kind that drags on unnecessarily,

4. Engaging ego, my own or others.  (Unfortunately, ego is one of those inescapable things, but if I’m more vigilant and self-observant, I may be able to avoid letting it control my life completely)

5. Junk, in all its forms, whether food, entertainment, or stuff

6. Confusing judgment for wisdom; times when I think I’m being wise when I’m actually being judgmental.

 

Things to Attract: 

1. Laughter, the kind that makes my entire body work and all my physical faucets leak.  Laughter that hurts my stomach but not anybody else’s feelings.  The kind that takes me unexpectedly, and leaves me weak yet joyful.

2. Learning moments, even in the form of challenges or experiences that push my comfort zone (but which are hopefully not catastrophic, traumatizing, or damaging in nature).

3. Critical nonjudgmental people who want to engage and be engaged, whether in reflecting on content, practice, or experience.

4. Honest feedback that isn’t advice (sincere observations and reactions that are relayed for me to reflect on and choose how to use according to my best judgment).

5. Gatherings of good people over good food.

6. Opportunities to be in nature.

7. Movement and energy, and anything that inspires them.

8. Good will and warmth.

9. The strength, courage, and support needed to pursue the life path that makes most sense to me.

10. The wisdom to realize when life is presenting me with exactly the things I need rather than the things I want.

 

*inspired by a dear loved one on his birthday, thank you, kazoon.

encyclopedia of informal education

The encyclopedia of informal education, a great resource for exploring informal education, lifelong learning, social pedagogy and social action.  A great resource self-learners, educators, and critical thinkers.

http://www.infed.org/index.htm

 

message to students

To all the students of the world, who sit or have sat in classrooms biding time, deaf and blind to the irrelevant content that controls the future commercial value of your lives…  we will not presume to tell you something that you do not already know, but we would like the opportunity to engage you in what we think:  the institution of education was made to fail you.

The problem is not necessarily that you are naturally not smart or hard working enough or that you are lazy or essentially flawed in some way that prevents you from excelling – this institution was simply not shaped for you.  It was shaped for others who don’t question authority. For those who can accept or adapt to being told what is relevant and what is not, what is valuable and what is not, and for what reasons these things are what they are.  It was shaped for those who can afford the luxury of a safe and supportive environment, one that refuses at all costs to let them fail in their education.

To understand the built-in failure feature of the education system, it helps to look at the kind of world institutionalized education has shaped for us as reflected in the world we live in today.  This institution was designed to give us skills that were deemed important for a certain system, for a certain purpose, educating for industrialization, modernization, and progress.  The world has been schooled towards its current globalized form – one of capitalism and consumption.

But what is wrong with this form as we experience it everyday?  It is in the form of global hegemonic imperialism (words definitely worth looking up and understanding well, if they’re not already familiar) that supports and values only one way of life at the expense of all others.  Valuing competition over collaboration, and allowing for some to survive and others to rot, which follows the logic of winning and losing, achieving and underachieving, passing and failing.

This preparation for an unforgiving and unfair system may be the purpose of education and schools, but it doesn’t necessarily have to be the purpose of learning.  Life is as colorful, varied, and dynamic as learners are and as learning environments should be.  The intrinsic limitations and constraints of the education system should not determine the horizons of our learning.  Our communal salvation lies in all of us, and is threatened with each person that the classroom fails, as that person becomes vulnerable to the worst that our system has to offer, creating one more face in the groups of millions that must struggle to survive at whatever expense.

So for those of you, like us, who cannot fathom sitting in one position for hours on end being talked at by a “certified expert”, these words are for you.  We cannot be passive learners waiting for others to determine relevant information to be deposited into our minds.  Learning most often happens without grades, as life is a repository of knowledge and people are bountiful resources.  If we see the value in ourselves and take learning into our own hands, with the purpose of collaboration and inclusion, we can begin to dismantle education and the destructive system it supports for the sake of learning and existing without posing a threat to our existence.

ourselves as learners

We’re very excited about sharing the journey to explore the world inside and outside of ourselves.  We see ourselves as subjective beings on this path to learning, drawing on our firsthand life experience, while being aware that our experiences are shaped by the structures and systems of power in place that either offer us the benefits of ‘belonging’ or the consequences of not.  We are of the belief that all that we know and do not know is a result of our experience as agents in an environment.

Our greatest driver is the desire to strengthen our minds, spirits, and bodies (our heads, hearts, and hands) in service to understanding our part in upholding oppressive structures, while practicing a life of generosity, humility, and active participation, one that is dedicated to the constant creation of critical consciousness.

Our greatest barrier is our own resistance and fear of seeing ourselves through the different lenses with which the world sees us.  The difficulty of holding up a mirror and seeing ourselves honestly in terms of who we are and what we represent.

We want to shake our complacency, our silent acceptance of “the way things are”.  We refuse to be shackled by our socialization and sequestered to our comfort zones, where our ideas are never challenged and learning never happens.  We want to understand ourselves and understand others, in the hopes that when we see the different parts, hear the different pain, and sit honestly with our different fears without deflecting, that healing may actually start to happen.

Through taghmees we are aiming to offer a range of activities and trainings, designed specifically for adult learners, drawing on the concepts and principles of experiential learning.  Training topics will cover a range of learning areas and competencies, that enhance participants’ ability to engage in the world critically.

It has been our experience that school kills the joy in learning.  In Einstein’s words, “It is in fact nothing short of a miracle that the modern methods of instruction have not yet entirely strangled the holy curiosity of inquiry.”  For the sake of igniting our interest, we aim to make learning relevant to our everyday lives, tapping into our natural curiosity in the world around us.

beginnings

We are proud to introduce taghmees, Jordan’s first social kitchen!  Through the combined efforts of a couple of friends, supported by our collective families, friends, and mentors, influenced by scholars, the critical thinkers, the dreamers, and the persistently resistant, inspired and made possible by all people, and powered by our universal collective consciousness, the foundation of all that we are today, which belongs to no one and everyone in equal measures.

We would like to design this page as an ongoing community discussion that will help us build on our knowledge base, and work to weaken the barriers that isolate us from each other.  Our life experience has made us aware of the importance of language in creating shared understanding among people.  We are conscious that most forms of communications today have been boiled down to creative catchphrases and trendy buzzwords, stripping language of any real content or context.  We invite you to explore language with us; to create some shared definition as a starting point for our learning.